Alert! Avoid these 5 types of emotional abuse
Refusing to communicate positively
Have you ever experienced this phenomenon? Someone unable to communicate in a calm and rational manner when problems occur, seldom engages in open and honest conversations, and more often expresses negative emotions to family members.
Anything can be a reason for him/her to be dissatisfied and cold violence with you, shirking responsibilities and putting faults on the other party in a preconceived way.
Ignoring each other's needs and feelings
Prioritize their own feelings first, but are tired of paying attention to each other's needs. When the other party wants to accompany and comfort, always use "busy now", "later", or "you just think too much" as a reason to put off. Whether it is behavior or language, everywhere is permeated with reluctance and perfunctory.
Habitually discouraging each other's ideas
This person often accuses, ridicules, or taunts other family members by belittling their ideas and disrespecting each other's judgment and choices. Anything that demonstrates that they are "wise" and others are "stupid".
Sometimes, this kind of speech seems to be amusing, but in fact, it is a naked ridicule. By denying and depreciating, the other person feels nervous, inferior, worthless, and voluntarily retreats or even gives up.
Selective avoidance
These people are hot and cold with their family members, and often display an indecisive attitude. They acquiesce to what interests them and what is in their own interest; they only respond coldly to conflicts and differences in their relationships, and often avoid them.
They do not express their needs or listen to their demands; they do not take the initiative to make explanations or believe in each other's promises; they do not face up to the existence of conflicts or try to mend the cracks, leaving their family members in a state of extreme insecurity.
Controlling in the name of love
Love in the name of control is also a mask for violence.
Some people don't respect their partner's need for privacy, restrict their partner's normal social life, and even control their behaviors in the name of love. They may say, "I'm doing this for your own good," "If you don't agree with me, you don't have me in your heart at all," etc., forcefully demanding the other side to act according to their own wishes.
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