Art of self-affirmation: Building confidence, high 'sense of deservingness'
You deserve everything
"Sense of deservingness" refers to the confidence of believing that you deserve everything nice.
Have you noticed that those who shine brightly in life often possess this "sense of deservingness"? They are optimistic and proactive, believing that they deserve all the good things and are willing to put in every effort to attain them. They readily accept compliments and are also eager to express their affection and admiration for others. Even when faced with setbacks and failures, they would not get discouraged, but instead view them as opportunities to hone and refine themselves to become better individuals.
Believe that you will find things that you're fond of and good at, and will meet someone who could strike a chord with you.
Be a person with a high "sense of deservingness"
People with a high "sense of deservingness" possess a strong confidence of "I deserve this." They can accept everything they have now with equanimity and believe that the future will be even better. They can embrace their imperfections while knowing how to leverage their strengths.
From now on: Praise yourself without hesitation
You don't have to spend lavishly, but when you come across something you love, treat yourself by buying it as a reward; When you meet someone you admire, take a shot at expressing your feelings frankly– it's okay if they say no; Affirm yourself from the inside; Boldly say no to unreasonable requests and stop trying to please everyone else...
Keep improving yourself, and you will be more confident.
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